Trust your First Gut...

I met someone through work recently who told me I had to go to her psychic.  She has gone to her 4 times and said she is spot on.

Now, I don’t really believe in this type of thing, but she told me a story that kind of changed my mind.

My work friend lost her husband to cancer, and she went to this psychic because she felt a bit lost at the time.  Now, I am not sure if she told the psychic that her husband died or if the psychic somehow knew (that would be impressive) but the psychic said the husband is encouraging you to date again.  And, that you will end up with a real “Wiseguy”.

My friend hears that and thinks yeah, right.  Whatever…

Fast forward to 6 months later, my friend is on a dating website.  She has gone out with a couple of guys but no one that she is interested in.  Her subscription was about to run out and she sees a guy that catches her eye.  She looks further at his profile and in his description, he calls himself a “Wiseguy”.  That caught her attention.  They end up going out and now they are married.  Yes, I KNOW!

So, I said, absolutely, I am ready to go to the psychic.

She makes an appointment for us.  Being a bit of a cynic, I asked my friend if she gave the psychic my name.  I envisioned the psychic checking out my social media profile(s) gathering all of the information she would need about me.

My friend says no, I just made an appointment for two people.  Interesting.

I arrive at the psychic’s office.  It is in her garage and an office manager greets us. I thought wow, she must make money doing this!  It was so crazy because we were basically in a stranger's home. But it felt very comfortable.

I meet the psychic, and I estimate her to be about 85 years old.  I quickly realize she is an old school psychic.  She doesn’t even ask my name, only asks my birthdate.  She is not googling people, that is for sure!  She didn’t even have a computer at her desk, she still had a land line.

She takes out 2 purple pieces of paper, asks my birthdate (including the year) and just starts writing. 

The first thing she said is she sees boxes all around me, she said what are you doing with boxes?  Well, at that moment, I had boxes in my condo because I was preparing to get my place painted and had to take everything off the walls, off the shelves, etc. and pack it up. 

It is wild because if she would have asked me that question 2 months earlier, I wouldn’t have even known what she was talking about.  I had just decided to have my place painted. Weird.  Maybe she is legit?

She said painting my place is symbolic for my life at this time.  She said I am starting fresh and sorting out people – things – thoughts and figuring out what is best for me.  She said I will have lots of clarity in my life and will make room for new relationships and getting rid of ones that don’t serve me.

She isn’t wrong.

She also said I have to keep my life balanced and not get emotionally attached to THEIR issues (other people's).  She said I can easily fall into that, but I need to protect my peace. She also said I should trust my FIRST gut, not my SECOND gut in relationships.

MIC DROP.  I haven’t been doing that.

Now, this reading was about an hour, and I could go on and on about all of the things she was right about.  She told me to continue to have fun and laughter in my life, (spot on again) but she didn’t really talk about my future love life.  At all.  She just said I was getting rid of the dead weight.

At the end, she asked if I had any questions.  I said yes, what about my love life?  Here we go.

She said I have to truly feel what I am looking for and once I do, I will attract that vibration, and he will appear.

Well, being a bit of a planner I say, do I stay on these dating apps or not? 

She said, I don’t know.

I said, do I know him, or will he be someone new? 

She said, I don’t know. 

She said, it isn’t about that, it is about attracting the right energy to you.  When you truly feel it, he will appear. 

And now we wait….

Lesson Learned?  I am feeling awesome so hoping to attract awesome. Also, trust your first gut! And, if you are wondering, I didn’t tell her about this blog.  This is probably not the vibration she would approve of!